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	<title>The Mediator&#039;s Handbook &#187; 3.  Process</title>
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		<title>Sketching the &#8220;Exchange&#8221;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been experimenting with sketching parts of our mediation process. Here&#8217;s what we think is happening in the Exchange, during the first part of the mediation when people are exploring the situation. The green boxes are what the mediator is aiming for, what needs to happen for the parties to reach emotional resolution or start [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting specific: 2 core questions for finding interests &amp; topics</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A flood of complaints, worries, demands, long stories, accusations, and explanations is pouring out. Where is a mediator to start? Here&#8217;s a new guideline we&#8217;re using to help mediators facilitate the &#8220;Exchange&#8221; phase. It elicits the information participants will need for problem-solving, and also helps people have a deeper conversation that is less accusatory and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The vision thing</title>
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		<title>Process labels&#8230;.continued</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:37:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a summary of the comments which have come in on email: Susan: Select words that have meaning to the participants, not just to the mediators Listening without Interruption Exchange of Views Identifying Issues and Topics Developing Options Reaching Decisions Joan: I am a bit concerned about the name of &#8216;Talking it out&#8217; when at [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Legacy language</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over blueberry muffins, hot from Caroline&#8217;s oven&#8230;.. We&#8217;re wrestling with what to do if we replace our familiar terms (&#8220;exchange&#8221; &#8220;uninterrupted time&#8221; &#8220;interests&#8221; etc.) with ones we think are more accurate or more useful. Will the new purpose-centered names for the process stages confuse people who learned mediation with the earlier editions? In what ways [...]]]></description>
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