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	<title>Comments on: Comedy or tragedy? Conflict as drama.</title>
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		<title>By: William Kaplan</title>
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		<dc:creator>William Kaplan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Concerning mediating with children and teens:

The Relating to young participants part is very good. The bold points are clear and will guide adult mediators to build connections with young people so that they can talk as equals. 

Note: page 17 insert &quot;pay&quot;, should read, &quot;need to pay extra&quot;

Groups of teens heading - thinking about this heading...the focus is on the mediator&#039;s role and our expectation within a group of teens.

Options: Let the kids or teens talk separately - I assume that you mean with a mediator present. Posturing and uncertainty about the &quot;other side&quot; makes genuine conversation difficult without someone there to facilitate.

The role of the mediator dealing with power imbalance - making sure adult particapants do not lecture and silence the voice of young participants. Like interrupting &quot;you should&quot; speeches. Though on the other side, sometimes particular adults (elders) can remind young participants about behaviors in the community. What do you think?

More to come.

Bill</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Concerning mediating with children and teens:</p>
<p>The Relating to young participants part is very good. The bold points are clear and will guide adult mediators to build connections with young people so that they can talk as equals. </p>
<p>Note: page 17 insert &#8220;pay&#8221;, should read, &#8220;need to pay extra&#8221;</p>
<p>Groups of teens heading &#8211; thinking about this heading&#8230;the focus is on the mediator&#8217;s role and our expectation within a group of teens.</p>
<p>Options: Let the kids or teens talk separately &#8211; I assume that you mean with a mediator present. Posturing and uncertainty about the &#8220;other side&#8221; makes genuine conversation difficult without someone there to facilitate.</p>
<p>The role of the mediator dealing with power imbalance &#8211; making sure adult particapants do not lecture and silence the voice of young participants. Like interrupting &#8220;you should&#8221; speeches. Though on the other side, sometimes particular adults (elders) can remind young participants about behaviors in the community. What do you think?</p>
<p>More to come.</p>
<p>Bill</p>
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